How many of you have got the feeling “why does it happen only with me”. Well I did a couple of weeks ago when my friend left to India. It didn’t hit me until he was gone. It dawned on that I will really miss him. For sure I can survive I thought, I have lot of other friends; I can go shopping with them, movies, beach and what not. But why does everything remind me of him?
Not one day has gone by without talking to him and now my days seem incomplete without hearing his voice. All I can do is cherish the days we spent together watching movies, long talks and his special red pepper chicken.
The feeling of “missing” someone is sort of interesting. I know its going to be a bit tough initially but as days pass by I hope to come back to normal. Even though I get calls from him almost everyday its not going be the same as being together in a same place. I am pretty sure I can manage several days, weeks and years until he comes back. As my friend said enjoy this phase of missing someone ;).
Really want to thank all my friends for your great support as without you guys I don’t think I would have come out of this mesh.
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:D Thanks for the comment, dear. EH, I am pretty sure that she's having a difficult day..she's exceptionally grouchy! I just pray that she'll get over it soon. And a comment about this blog...
It's difficult to cope with someone leaving us. But think of it this way, you get to talk to him almost everyday even though he's in India. He's a phone call away and he will continue to be your friend. Distance doesn't matter if you can make the BEST out of it. And I'm sure that he hasn't left you for eternity. :D Yes, it is quite a change...but I'm sure that you'll learn to cope with it. :D
Take care now.
Wait wait wait..."comment on secret relationships".............!!!
where did that come from?? im sorry..i can be so slow at times.. uve gotta fill me in on that hon! :D haha!
Well...I'm not sure if I'd call them 'relationships', per se. Relationship has such a positive connotation, according to me. blah!!
so true.... frnds are the angels sent by god for us....
life sure goes on...or it MUST go on...
Keshi.
hmm...i am also experincing the pain right now..its different than when people are around u..there should always be two sides in a coin then it should be valid r useful..keep going along the life path with others...
@brute- ya..r u an angel sent for me too..;)
@keshi-yea..very true..the journey continues...
@thenraj-hmm..yea trying to move on..its so hard tho..memories keeping haunting...hate it..
"i think everyone should experience things like we did inorder to know the value of life..wat say??..;"
You are absolutely right. Sometimes, it is better to let yourself free (with knowing your limits) and stop and smell the roses. :D
"glad u wrote something like this..."
Thank you. I'm glad as well. Took a load off my mind.
"gives me nostalgic feelings"
That and some more feelings. :D
hi...visiting your blog for first time thru ya comment in mine...
All of us in life at any one point of time will experience this feel and now i being in the final year of my college can experience it daily...A mixed emotion of happiness and loneliness...
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY and keep visitin
kavi! :( i am totally in ur shoes! but its just that we dont talk nemore . every thing reminds me of him. read my blog u will know!
i miss him every min and nooo missing him this way isnt sweet ! :((
Awww..thanks darling. I just randomnly came [“hopped on” to be exact] to the site and saw ur comment. *Sigh* 8 more days and I am seeing signs of ‘freaking out’! I hope that I won’t jump off a cliff or something. AHAHA. Intensity is not my thing, even if it is studying. Looks like that I need to reconsider it. *Sigh*
So..how are you? What are you doing now a day?
mmm....well again....enjoi this little missin phase.... :)
cheer up kav!
im done im done!!! im done!!! im done!! :D im just excited about it..! it's over!
how are you, darling?
HEY!! It was not friendly. But I did well. I loved your 'you must have'.. it shows that you've got much confidence in me than I did. :D You know what, watch all those movies when you can. Well, you can watch them after classes start. Then again, I shouldn't conclude that everyone's a procrastinator as I am. :D
Hey kavi! Cheer up! Trust me, this phase is only going to make ur friendship stronger than it was before. The whole fun lies in waiting for the call and hearing the wonderful voice of your friend! enjoy it!
Im not sure, whether to post a comment on this post. This post is to your friends... But no other go, since it is the latest, i do here... Thanks for visiting my blog Ms. Kavitha..... Im so happy... Your blog rocks :)
Surprising...we never really think abt it till they r with us :D
@mahesh-thanks for dropping by mahesh...n thanks for the positive comment :)
@raz-yea.i have read those posts da...its very difficult i guess..hate this feeling..:(
@dakaltiz-hehehe..ur advice taken..;)
@prithz-yea..i guess i have to think about this in a different angle :)
@raja-ofcourse u can post ur comments on anything i rite..my blog rocks n chumma thana sonna..ok ok..understood..:P
@harish-heyy..athu enna ennamo correct than pa...human nature..matha mudiyathu...
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