Who are the special persons in your life that you can call in times of suffering, when u suddenly feel very anxious, depressed and fearful at 3am.
It can not be ur parents, siblings, bf or gf. Don’t repeat a friends name twice.
I couldn’t think of more than 2 people whom I would be comfortable to disturb at that odd time. One could have hundreds of people around them but it’s very important that you know that one person who will be always there with you no matter what.
It sure makes me feel lonely.
It can not be ur parents, siblings, bf or gf. Don’t repeat a friends name twice.
I couldn’t think of more than 2 people whom I would be comfortable to disturb at that odd time. One could have hundreds of people around them but it’s very important that you know that one person who will be always there with you no matter what.
It sure makes me feel lonely.
23 comments:
ada... yaaraiyume solla koodathunu muthallaye condition podareenga ;)
hehe.. i can still think...mmm...errr... 3-4 names :)
You got atleast two people. I can't even think of one! Damn! I must be really really lonely.
BTW..why "ada paavi" comment on my blog?!!
Life teaches you a lot of lessons. One of them is that you should never have expectations from others.. whether they are your friends or family. At times, you will only have YOURSELF and you have to live with it. You have to live with the fact that no matter how much the other person means to you...he or she will not always be there for you!
Though I can think of 3-4 people to call, I don't think I ever will even if I need to cos I recently figured out that everyone's expression of love/friendship need not necessarily follow your norms. That doesn't make them any less concerned about you..
When you expect something and it doesn't happen, you end up feeling angry and hurt. But most of the times, the other person doesn't even understand what angered you. In this case, I don't think the anger is doing much good! You might as well let it go :)
@kavi:
do u want me to spell out the names here?
ajju, machi ( this ass is in US thou'), krithi, deeps, sai , bhavans mobile is usually switched off at nights n then richard , couple of my bro's frndz who r a 24 hr help line
these r ppl whom i can call for immediate help who wil come in person...
if i need a hug or a chat online
i ve another list who dont mind being disturbed at any odd hours.
but as absconding has stated - sometimes... its jus me! :(
guess no one can pass this!
@dreamz-hehe..un otta vaayi vechittu nee 3-4 sonnathe rombe kammi :)
@hari-haha..i dont feel so bad anymore :P
ada paavi oru shock la sonnen...ithu elam poi ya try pannuvaanga...:|
@merin-yea ur right merin..but sometimes we really need some people around us to let our emotions drain..doesnt matter if they really care or not...just being with u when u need someone is very imp..:)
n its true that we shouldnt expect anything from anyone...n no matter how hard we try to drill this thing in our head...we always end up expecting something or the other..human tendency ..nothing could be done..atleast in my case :)
@gayatri-yea da..enna panna mudiyum..these days its just all for drama sake..act as though u really care for someone...
i really dont expect a lot from ppl...but if i know they meet my expectations...i expect way toooo much :)
@raz-wow lucky u :)
help na i can also think of lot of ppl da...but its just that sometimes u feel like talking to someone at the oddest time...n u cant figure out who to call..out of those 7 names..u will chose one person right...athu than kettain :D
but its good that u have so many close friends when u need them...>:D<
Well..you see Kavi..it all depends on how much you're willing to tell the other person. At times, you just want someone to talk to..period. You don't really want to talk about something specific. You just want to talk. I think that I can call a person or two at any time of the night and be expected to be greeted with a 'what the heck is wrong?'! Not that I've ever done it before...I'm just EXPECTING. I'm not planning to do that either!
I either talk to myself or just sit down and cry. Talking to myself.. now..that solves a bunch of problems because apparently my brain can analyze different perspectives. Crying really helps (if it's to that extreme) because I feel like a load is lifted off my mind.
Man is a social animal and yes we do depend on each other. Through my experiences, I have learned to rely on people less and less. :D
Like someone had said before..I expect others to KNOW how I'm feeling..which is kind of ridiculous. I'm quite stubborn when it comes to that as well...because.. I rarely let people know how I'm feeling!!
hmm..i do have one cherube of a friend...can call anytime...midnite, daytime...i dun care...i know there is a person who always cares...
well there r ppl whom u can reach out to .... but evlo nalikirathu thaan question.... u cant have tat spl person all thro ur life i guess....
Lucky you...
I couldn't even think of one... or is it i don't share :(
@merin-yea talking to urself n crying helps....but i am not a cry person i guess...i rarely cry...but i sure do talk to myself..:)
@shiv- :D...sometimes thats all u want da...that one person is enough to share everything..:)
@dakaltiz-true da...but u never know...some ppl will always stick by ur side no matter wat...
@kuttibalu-haha..u know sometimes our friends will be able to share everything...but we wont be able to tell them about our life...i have lot of friends like...who consider me as there best friend cuz they share everything about themselves...but they all know very less about me...
enna solla varen n puriyutha?? :P
ha ha ... ille kavi..naanum apdithaan nenachen .. but athu la romba kashtam in reality...dialog vena adikalam ipo...
poga poga unake theriyum....
@dina- appa nee enna solla...vara...innum 2 varsham keshichi unna marandhuduvena?? :P
i know wat ur saying pa..:( :(
I cld count a few but if its that very odd time then it's 100% one who is verrrry special to me in every aspects!
anbudan aruNa
it sure hurts when u feel u cant call that some one whom u thought wud comfort and get u out of the phase you are going thru :)
but irunthalum....... philosophical ah yosichu paartha.....
ulagathai nesi..oruvaraiyum nambaathe !!! :)
This is the thaaraga manthiram to keep loving ppl :)
Better are those days, where you really dont have to call anybody but can remain calm & serene with a bit of meditation... might sound too preachy... but i sincerely feel this is what one should aim for... rather than searching for people....
Two people. And you feel lonely?
You are blessed!
two people'ey adhigam... idhula lonely veraya? hmmm.. innamo po..
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