Friday, March 28, 2008

My hero


I can’t help wondering today where the years have gone since you were just my little girl,
Reaching out for me to hold you, to protect you, to love you
I can’t help remembering those days,
but I also see you as you are now- mature and strong,
no longer in need of me to protect you
I hope you know, that I am still here to hold you when you want me to and always, always to love you.

That’s exactly how my dad feels every time I take a step forward in my life. I don’t want him to think that I am old enough to take care of myself. I don’t want him to let go of me thinking I know everything. It feels great to know that no matter what happens he will always be there for me to offer his unconditional love.
I think there is nothing wrong in doing certain things that makes him feel better. If asking for permission every time I go out is what he wants, I would be happy to give him that small pleasure. If consulting him before making any decision is what he expects, why not give him that authority to do so. After all he was the one who made decisions about my life when I was young.

I'm daddy's little girl, not because I need it...but because he loves me that way, and because I've been blessed with the maturity to see the wonder of it all.

20 comments:

The Maverick Blog said...

Orey feelings of canadavaa irukku :)

Good one actually.. Super po :)

Dreamzz said...

//Orey feelings of canadavaa irukku :)

Good one actually.. Super po :)//
repeatu!

Arti Honrao said...

This is absolutely touching! Also, it has a message for me, in it

Thanks,
GBU
Arti

Raz said...

machi....
well. ippadi panni panni than, en life iippadi aagiduchu.
u shld let them know u r grown up!
i did wht u said when i was 23 nw being 25 i know the difficulties in this.

Kavitha Jay said...

@maverick- thank u :D

@dreamzz-haha...ithuvum copy ahh?? thanks da

@arti-hey..i am glad :)..thanks a lot :D

@raz-machi..he knows i am grown up..but i just dont want him to think that way...i know wat u mean di..>:D<

Gayatri said...

:)touching

Nivya Kimbi said...

paa.. y sudden peelings??? is father's day round the corner?? ;)

gP said...

Madam! yenge poitinge? busy ah?

Arun Sundar said...

Hmmm...well written. I wonder wats with daughters and fathers!

dakaltiz said...

appa ku peria meter a vachruka pola? ;) over icing aa iruke...kavi... :)

wonderful post ma... liked it...

cm chap said...

For the first time u hv written somethg worth readg.... otherwise all the time drooling only

Chakoli said...

HI...
My first visit to your blog...:-)))

and it seems dadyy gals is now "badi ho gayi hain ".....

I agree....no matter what...how old u r...still parents would remain the same...and for themm...we are still their kids:-)))

Shankar.Nash said...

hey.. hapenned to jump into ur blog and very much moved by the first post that i read.. u r true.. no matter what ever v r, it will give them some pleasure when we consult them or still be the little ones asking them for direction...

anyway, good write up...

PCP.Senthil Kumar said...

Hi Kavitha, Nice to meeting you after long.. hey happy news pa, I have been joined has Cinema Reporter and content writer in a website and news paper, I got an opportunity to meet Actor surya for an interview and i took lots of snaps on that day, if you wish i will give that to you...and tomorrow i'm going to Actors association protesting against Kannada, I going there... for coverage and i hope i can meet surya again and i will take some snaps :) I know you are good fan of him. Lets wish for Ayon

here is one sample picture :) who is it ?? he is cute na ??


http://i30.tinypic.com/2e6hhfp.jpg

thank you

PCP

Kavitha Jay said...

@gayatri-thanks da :)

@nivya-fathers day va..athu eppo?? :P

@ghostparticle-hello..enga than irruken..nee enge?

@arun-hmm i wonder wats with sons and mothers..hehe

Kavitha Jay said...

@dakaltiz-hehe..purinjidcha? danks :)

@cm-chap-unna paarthu drool panra maari scene ah podra..hmm..thank u :)

@chakoli-i know ehh..badi nahi huyi abhi thak..atleast thats wat i think ;)

Kavitha Jay said...

@shankar-welcome :)..glad u liked it..n thank u

@pcp-aiyooo...sample k oru pic thana...plz mail me everything that u got :D :D
ahhhh ur soo lucky...damn..if u see him again..make sure u tell him about me..enna ;)..hehe

gP said...

naan inge, ni ange.

PCP.Senthil Kumar said...

Has i told you yesterday i went to kollywood one day fasting against Kannada. There i saw your surya and want to share some shots to you but i don't you email address so, i pasted my orkut album.. please check it out. my email ID is pcpsk59@gmail.com

Ciao

PCP
http://www.orkut.com/Album.aspx?uid=10142348737706826670&aid=1207304891

N.V.Prashanth said...

I wonder how often we sit back and feel after everything is said and done.

Well written! But they too know tht they will have to consult us bfore deciding.. that way its great!